it's all within you!
By Arsh Satsangi
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It’s all within you!
Sometimes you feel lonely. You feel there is no one who could understand you or help you out of your miserable life. Everyone seems to be busy with their own lives. It doesn’t matter how nice your friends are they still cannot fill that void in your heart. But all these feelings don’t mean that you really are alone. It simply means that your brain has chosen this particular day to fill itself with all the negative thoughts one can ever think of. People play mind games but sometimes your mind itself plays a game. And it has efficient team members too. It’s the time when all the negative emotions and thoughts come out to play!
The same happened with me today. I feel as if a permanent void has been created in my life which my friends and family can never fill. There was a time when I used to share everything with my parents. But eventually that routine fades especially when u enter teenage. As soon as you are 13 you start thinking about things which are an absolutely no-no when it comes to sharing your thoughts with your family. It starts with liking a guy (usually the smartest one in your class!) then having a crush and finally entering into a relationship with a guy you feel is perfect for u. That is the time when friends enter your life and sharing suddenly means more than just lunch and chocolates!
But what to do when even your friends are unable to pull you out of your doomed life? This is exactly the question I’ve been asking myself these days. What to do when you feel you are unable to do anything about your situation? To whom to go when your friends are busy and your family is somehow out of reach (both mentally and physically)?
Remember those days when during the moral science classes they used to teach how the ‘answer lie within ourselves’? And guess what? They told us the ultimate truth!
The answer of all these questions lie inside you or to be specific the answer itself is you!
When no one can understand you or hear you out its time to turn to the perfect friend on this earth, the friend who can listen and understand you, and treat your problems like their own.
Wondering how I can be so sure that u have one such friend? Or where is that friend now? Here it comes again “it’s all within you!” you are the only one who can solve your problems! And give an end to all those unwanted feelings of your life!
You only can bring yourself out of all your misery. How can you be lonely when you have the most awesome companion? You know that no one else can fight those emotions or the games your mind is playing except for yourself! Only you have the power to eradicate all those thoughts and feelings and have the last laugh!
That void in your heart which you feel is because you haven’t found your prince charming or to be more specific you think you cannot find your significant other yet, in reality it’s a place in your heart which is for yourself! It’s there because you haven’t given yourself the due amount of importance! You are the one who can fill that void in your heart and life! Once you give yourself a place in your heart u will know if someone else actually deserves it or not. Cause eventually you will start believing that not everyone is worthy of that special place than you are. And hence you deserve the biggest piece of the cake! And the largest amount of time and respect.
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Hello Arsh.
Hello Arsh.
This was a very moving read that meant a lot to me.
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Wow.! I love this and it
Wow.! I love this and it describes alot that other people are probably feeling right now. I never thought of being lonely in this type of way. But, great writing and I enjoyed reading it.
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