Stigmatisation of the abused

Why is so many people who bully then like to label the people they
bully as the scary people, then they do mock shivering to indicate how
scummy and diseased they think their victims are. They're evil people
who think that anything you touch is diseased. Their dehumanising evil
bullying people who wreck peoples lives and then still have the evil
idea that they're nice people, because they only abuse inferiors. I
always get that when people bully me. They label me as creepy, weird
etc: I admit I'm shy and unfortunately almost all bullies see all shy
people as sad weird creeps and decide that is justification to bully
you to suicide due to their evil snobby bullying, dehumanising,
psychopathic mindset. They decide shy men are the most dangerous
species on earth even though most bullying, crime, serious crime, rape,
murder, fascism, is committed by snobby bullies, but as they want to
come up with justifications for their snobby hared of you instead of
just relying on the fact they hate you for being in their view inferior
they also decide to pretend you are the scary one. Most bullies hate
shy people, they decide to hate you and decide it's your fault. Loads
of bullies who have picked on me have the similar pattern of pretending
I'm the scary one, while they bully me. I remember at university loads
of bullies would walk past me making really horrific, insulting,
mannerisms, snobby bullying mannerisms as if to say 'you are a lump of
scum get lost you scary sad little creep', while it was them who were
the sadistic thugs who were bullying loads of other vulnerable people
and they will probably abuse their own kids and wives. Some of the
people who bullied me would then shiver at me and tell me I was scary
when I'd never even seen them before in my life. They seemed to have
taught themselves to shiver at people they regarded as scum. I worked
this out straight away that they weren't scared of me. If I ever get
scared of people I try to make sure they don't notice me you don't make
horrible snobby mannerisms towards them, and tell them how scared you
are of them. The people who put on those mannerisms are horrific
bullies or are marred to horrible bullies and get turned on by their
partner abusing their supposed inferiors. Anyone who shivers
deliberately at their supposed inferiors is a really horrible person
they actually go to the trouble of teaching themselves to shiver at
people they regard as scum. It's like they go to some school to learn
different mannerisms of how to make people feel like piles of shit
diseased scum. I worked out the bullies pretend fear reactions towards
their victims is the same reaction some snobs have to tramps a horrific
snobby skin crawling dehumanising emotion of saying 'I hate you, you
dehumanised, inferior weak pile of scum' and then pretending the
snobbery they feel is fear, when it's just powerful snobbery to hurt
other people, or if it is snobby fear of being infected by disease of
your diseased inferiors, to indicate to others they are superior. This
is a huge section of the bullying debate and is totally underestimated.
It is powerful soul destroying snobbery that is not just social
isolation but total attack on you as scum, scary, when all you do is be
shy, or different. It's remorseless in what they do in making you feel
like you are a disease something that should make people shiver at the
sight or feel disgust and these bullies know exactly what they are
doing and they enjoy doing that to people. Then they admire horrible
people who abuse people and say they make like for entertaining, while
they see good people as scum. They are really damaging people, but they
don't care because they're psychopaths. They real make me feel like
shitty scum, when their around me they totally destroy my confidence
and they want me to die. They're rally horrific people and should be
locked up.
The media don't pay any attention to how sophisticated bullies are in
bullying. The problem is that as many bullies want to pretend that form
of bullying is trivial, but it isn't. The major damage of bullying is
psychological even with the physical abuse the major damage is most of
the time the longer term psychological trauma, that is the feeling that
people see you like a pile of diseased scum. It is awful and don't tell
me it should just part of adult life to make people feel like a
diseased lump of scum. That is as sensible as thinking part of adult
life is to sexually abuse people, or murder people, It doesn't improve
my life for people to treat me like a pile of shit. And I don't just
mean insults I mean the way they look at you, shiver at you, get other
people to hate you, persuade everyone it is manly to be evil and a
violent snide aggressive thug.
The thing is though this stigmatisation of the victim of abuse as the
people to fear and making them feel like scum does not just stop there
with shy men or shy women getting this too, it also affects the
mentally ill, disabled women and men, where you can get gangs of thugs
bullying them and then having the deranged gall to say they find their
victim scary. Then you get asylum seekers being abused by racists and
then the racists having the gall to say it is the asylum seekers who
are dangerous and scary, then you get public school boys abusing
comprehensive children as inferior people and deciding it is the
working classes who are scary. The most famous historical example is of
upper class lords abusing the working classes then regarding the
working classes as scary scum. It seems to be a clich? throughout
history that people who have abused have wanted to stigmatise the
people they abuse as the scary dangerous ones. This is most serious in
my case for someone like myself who as a shy quiet person get's
bullied. I have noticed loads of people who bully such people like to
label sad, pathetic men as the dangerous guy the most likely men to be
dangerous, when the reality is, the most dangerous men are the
aggressive, snobs who bullied at school, or university or in adult
life, but if you say this they bully you to not say this, and try and
make out the people they abuse are the scary ones.
I remember there was this kid who got his arm broken by bullies at
school he was two years below me. I bet those thugs will grow up to
believe the guy they abused was the scary one for being probably weak,
and wimpish and that they are normal sane men and their wives will
think they are just normal; manly men who like gaining pleasure by
physically abusing children. You see the despite obvious notion that
they will grow up to be the dangerous ones, instead we get the
situation where the victim will be regarded as having something to be
ashamed of or will be thought of as scary if he turns shy or creepy
while snide evil bullies will grow up thinking they are superior and
bullies will admire them as real men who are of course not dangerous at
all.
The majority of wife beaters, rapists, serial killers, are confident,
snobby big bullying thugs, but as bullies dominate the media and their
definition of sexual attraction dominates the media of seeing evil
bullies as sexy means that no one wants to admit that, so instead we
have a drive from people who hate victims of bullying to label their
victim as the dangerous scary one who people should watch out
for.
A typical analogy is that if you had one shy men who was bullied and
picked on or was weak and wimpish the bullies would regard him as more
scary than say the raping, bully boy Mike Tyson. The bullies would fear
the shy man and admire the rapist bully boy as a real man for being
evil and winning fights. Most dictators such as Stalin. Mussolini, and
Hitler were school bullies. While Roosevelt and Churchill were both
bulled at school. Most rapists, murderers, abusers were bullies at
school or are snobby bullies in adult life, but as aggressive bullying
people dominate many areas of life by bullying their way to jobs they
don't deserve they get to prattle out their own crappy views about who
they think the dangerous people are. It is normally based in their
snobbish sexual attraction to bullies meaning they love them and their
hatred of weak people.
A typical example of this is the clich?d of story of a gang of thugs
abusing some mentally handicapped women with learning disabilities then
deciding she is the scary one. It's always the case and it should be
noticed as a sign of the sophistication of bullies in how prepared they
are to set up complex ideologies to justify their evil bullying and
abuse. I accept many vulnerable people do serious crime but most crime
abuse is committed by the bullies.