Read it First, Damn You
Has anyone else had their writing criticised by someone who hasn’t even read it? You know, someone’s heard that the content disagrees with their opinion on something and they’ve slated you before they read your work.
My little boy, who’s only just turned five last week, came home from school with a note saying he’d been hit by another kid in the playground and had been to the medical room to have his eye attended to. I chatted to him about it, without asking any leading questions, and it turns out that this other boy is two years older than him and was pushing and punching all the kids in his class.
Now when Kai first joined Reception, there was a little bit of bullying going on. The Reception kids were chased in the playground and pushed over. Most of us parents felt that it was all a part of school life and helped the kids learn who to mix with and who to avoid – or rather what type of people to avoid.
But a seven-year-old punching a five-year-old in the face seemed a little extreme. So I wrote a letter to the school. The next morning I told my wife and she immediately jumped down my throat. “Oh, you haven’t! You’re going to cause all sorts of unnecessary trouble. The kid’s probably going to get suspended …..” and so forth.
I said, “Have you read the letter?”
“No, I haven’t,” she admitted.
“Then go and read it before jumping down my throat. You’ve no idea what the content of the letter is yet.”
She read the letter, came back upstairs and said, “I’m sorry, it’s very well worded, I think you should hand it in.” And I did.
This brought to mind an article I wrote several years ago on why I believe all drugs should be legalised and sold in chemists and petrol stations and off licenses etc. to all of appropriate age. It’s a belief I still hold to this day, and as I’m sure everyone knows the argument I needn’t go into it here.
Now I really researched this article. So much so, in fact, that I phoned up the Home Office twice to make sure I had my facts straight and to request further information. I would love to publish the article on ABCtales except that for some reason I can’t open the disk it’s on and I don’t have a hard copy. Gutted!
Anyway, I would tell people about the article and a number of them would put that sour look on their face and say something like, “Legalise all drugs? That’s the most irresponsible thing I’ve heard,” and so on.
I’d reply, “Read the article before passing judgement,” and without exception, once they’d read the article, they would all do a complete about face. Some even asked to keep the article to show it to friends.
So I’m wondering if anyone else has had their work attacked before it’s been read.
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