E-Griff's "Pride, Prejudice &; a Portion of Chips"

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E-Griff's "Pride, Prejudice &; a Portion of Chips"

This anecdote of E-Griff's hits a particular nail on its head.

He's right that snobbery comes from all directions - the young to the old, and vice versa, the males to the females, and vice versa....and especially the old North and South matter. I was in a lovely position with regards to this, similar to E-Griff's own - I was born in Derby, lived in Derbyshire for a while and have always visited my grandparent's and family there regularly, yet I've spent most of my life growing up in Buckinghamshire. As a result of that, and my parent's influence, I have an accent that it seemed for a while everyone was prejudiced against. My parents would scorn me when I was younger for saying 'barth' instead of 'bath,' and years later, in school, I was regularly mocked for saying 'bath' instead of 'barf.' People seemed to assume I was from Yorkshire, and thought it immensely witty to speak to me in a Yorkshire accent. At the same time, the younger kids who I saw occasionally while I worked in a youth group accused me of speaking 'posh', presumably because I used words unknown to them. Back in the Midlands, or up north, I have to say I've encountered no such disdainful comments, but sometimes feel very uncomfortable speaking in the company of people with strong northern accents. Frankly, alongside them, I do sound like a pansy.

Other prejudice also comes mainly from my imagination. We've all heard tales of these thick people you meet in shops who don't seem to be able to handle difficult situations intelligently - well I'm one of those. I'm often nervy and accident-prone in public, and can't think clearly. I'm certain more than one person has gone away from an encounter with me thinking me a dumbass fool and feeling quite superior. On the other hand, the looks I get from people sometimes for trying out an articulate sentence or two! Suddenly I'm the pretentious and arrogant prat who must think he's SO superior!

edgy
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A case of 'daylight snobbery', Henstoat? (said in a strong but caring Scouse accent)
freda
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snobbery was always my pet hate, but i have been guilty. Initially it's a way of putting anything you can't temporarily cope with on one side for the sake of your self esteem. I think a lot of the dialect and regional accent snobbery comes from mental laziness ..... you know, you might have to stretch your ears around some different sounds before your brain can connect with what the other person is saying. And it's so much easier to read the other person if you can mentally give them a part in Coronation Street.
iceman
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I had a "posh" North London accent for years at school but didnt know it. It was only when one of the blokes I knew at school saw me a few years after I had left that he commented that I used to sound "posh" but now sounded completely different. Point being is occasionally, depending on who I am talking to I will switch the accent on. It fools them. Like they think one thing and I know another. But what I do now its not important, was before when I worked in Lloyds of London.
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