Why do abusers balame the victim?

ahem!

that isnt funny.

purile

we do have and make adult choices..most abusers are adults but most adults aren't abusers.

AJ, I will not rise to that. From one abuser to another.

In the future they'll use 'free speech' Internet messageboards to keep the whole population occupied with their own private obsessions, and thus pave the way for tyranny. As we're only at the testing stage, however, this prototype only works on sad old bats with one track minds. Not that I'm ungrateful. Now I know why there aren't any AJ's out prowling the streets. The Internet has made the streets of Norwich safe!

Well done Hen. Slightly askew there though, you'll find it works on self obsessed arseholes who think they're Gods gift to literature too.

AJ Because in their tiny, stupid little minds, they are not capable of doing anything wrong and because they like to be in control. The person in control must also be in the right. Paul Stop being so bloody stupid.

Well, we've yet to see that aspect in action. Unless, of course, that's the reason you're here?

thanks Sabelle.....words of wisdom as per usual. Paul......well Raif you could never RISE to ANY occasion!!!!!!!!! Shame cos I actually liked ya when I met ya. Shows my wisdom in men don't it? [%sig%]

Hen, is it true that you auditioned for UEA's production of the Sound of Music, but they turned you down because when it cames to the singing the "Doe a Deer' song, you kept singing "Me, me me, me me me meeeee, me, me me me me me meeee. Me, me me, me me meeeee, me, me me me me me meeeee"?

AJ Unfortunately wisdom comes from experience doesn't it

Monsieur, the only one obsessed with me is you. Please, for your own sake, get a new hobby.

Still behaving like the stupid twat that you are then dicko?

Do I detect a slagfest brewing?

Oh wonderful

i'll order pizza and beer shall i?

I don't even know who the guy is. He's identifiable only by the fact that his comments have to be about me in some way, and usually follow my posts. By all means, let's move the discussion back to AJ, and her enduring fight for the rights of 'victims'.

oops typo error there! :(

cos they are screwed up, if they weren't they wouldn't have abused first place