genes
I was thinking that when you have a baby it is a wierd thing... like me and fay keep seeing different faces and mannerisms in him from distant relatives now long gone. What blows my mind is how can my distant relatives survive in me , how can the way my grandad smiled and looked be passed on to my son and completely bypass me ; how can feys dad's hair colour skip her , but be given to her child. How can qualities that are so prevalent in other family members , completely bypass you , but be passed on to your children. Is so strange to think that all these things are living in the dna of our cells and some of it we never inherent, yet it is encoded there deep in our cells , and comes out in your children...
is so deep it makes me look at the stars and wonder how?