Playstation - Is Life Too Fast Now?
I've banned my kid from playing Playstation for the night. And he's got his mate staying over, who loves it. Normally I don't mind him playing on the Playstation because he takes part in so much sport - football, basketball, swimming, surfing - and I don't mind him watching telly because he nearly always tunes into Spy Sport 1 or Discovery Kids.
But I'm trying to teach him Backgammon and he was getting more and more impatient with it, until finally he gave up altogether. Playstation is too easy. If you're doing crap you can just stop the game and stat all over again. But my main issue is that it's too fast. You don't have to think about it. Just switch it on and go.
Now obviously he doesn't own Grand Theft Auto or anything like that, but I'd much rather he spend his time developing the ability to slow down, focus, concentrate and plan moves several goes ahead. Backgammon is ideal for this.
Is life too fast nowadays? Are meals too readily available at MacDonalds? Is adventure too readily available on the telly? Is there little need to have our own adventures any more?
These two kids are now finding it difficult to know what to do with themselves. And yet he's got a pool table in his bedroom that turns into a table football or air hockey or basketball game. He's got remote-control cars. He's got Yughio cards. He's got countless other games.
He actually put something on his Christmas list this year that we found in his cupboard! He already owned it but had forgotten!
Often, when I was growing up, all we had was a set of steps. I'm not kidding. And do you know what? We played for hours and hours on those steps. We invented game after game after game. We invented! We got creative! We made things up!
We occupied ourselves.