Mysterious79

Just read through these poems recently posted.

I wanted to comment on these because I experienced something that appears very similar.

I think whatever you feel about loss such as this, it takes tremendous courage to not only put your thoughts down on paper, but to show them to others. This courage should be commended.

The black hole you speak of is something most who has suffered loss are aware of. My persepective on the world states that these things happen, and what's done is done - as callous as that sounds. It is neither a reflection on the person lost, or my feelings for them, it is simply the reality of the situation for me. It comes down to controlling those situations and feelings that you can control and understanding those that you can't control, and allowing time to work its magic.

But that's me, and we all have our ways of coping. I am happy with mine, although it comes under heavy criticism sometimes. I hope, and am sure, you'll find what works for you.

Ben