Could too much focus on materialism be a happiness damper?

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Could too much focus on materialism be a happiness damper?

I recently posted a piece which contained the observation that many people who have almost nothing are often far happier than those who have a lot!
Shoebox responded with a comment which contained the above question.
So, does more mean less :O) What do you think?

I blame so called science backed theories that erode people's belief in God and ultimately in themselves. Although the people who propose these theories don't seem to lack self belief :O) Just take a look at my wonderful book it explains where we’ve always gone wrong. You know that Creation was merely Inflation and driven by chance all along. You’ll soon get the hang of the theory Big Bang and you won’t need a god anymore. Then no doubt you will see that without the Big He there will be no excuses for war. My own selfish gene and the wonderful meme clearly show how we’ve gotten to here. So now you can see that the only god is me and at last you have nothing to fear.
It's one of those cliches that contains a half truth - like the meek inheriting the earth - a sop to the impoverished and weedy (such as myself) who like to think the rich, powerful and Godlike also tremble in the dark like feverish lemmings. But do they? Do they really?

 

I think it's relative, a slippery slope. Wealthy people typically look to the even richer people over there. After more than enough money, it turns into wanting power/status. They get wrapped into the next mindset. It seems there is no end to want, the Maslow hierarchy of human needs. This is a most interesting thing to explore and notice.
I agree that buying things is addictive and the worst part of it is that, as with any addiction, you need ever more to get the same high. There is also a lot of peer pressure to have ‘cool’ things and gain the status that goes with owning them. Sadly, it can often seem that you are what you own. However, I’m not sure that this is really what makes so many people here so unhappy... so much as a feelings of insignificance, worthlessness, alienation, paranoia and a fear of the unknown. A general fear that they might be inadequate in some way. You see so many wondering around with faces like a wet weekend, eyes downcast, wearing personal stereos, living their own personal nightmares and trying to pretend that no-one else exists. Of course if you try to make contact with them it often merely feeds their paranoia and makes you feel bad too.
I think that's totally unfair. If I can't be a multi-gazillionaire with my own private space station and an accompanying shuttle in permanent orbit, acting as my site for lavish, zero-gravity cocktail parties, then what's the point of human life, eh? Answer me that, why don't you? My latest killing is: http://www.bookscape.co.uk/short_stories/human_sacrifice.php
Aren't you sick of those zero-grav parties yet, Pat? They're such a pain with their prepacked, pre-mixed, leak-proof cocktails with the valve regulated straws and those cumbersome Dinner-jacket space-suits are sooo last year... it's submarines and Nemo-parties now, darlink!
mykle, you blame the erosion of belief in God for unhappiness? Let's be clear about this, we do not just face a choice between untrammeled greed and ignorant theism. Your suggestion I suppose is that if we spent our lives in benighted ignorance, on our knees trembling in fear of some terrible (if non-existent) deity we'd all suddenly find happiness and satisfaction. Guilt, self-denial, masochism, sadism, intolerance, willful ignorance, exploitation, wanton violence and genocide are just some of the things faith in god has increased in the world and yet for the proponents of such deluded nonsense it is the panacea for all ills. I'd like to suggest that in fact most people are not greedy; most people want a sound roof over their heads, enough food for them and their families, clothes for their backs, good friends, fulfilling work and time to be creative and at ease. Neither the baubles of consumerism nor the empty promises of heaven or the threats of hell can bring the happiness that a world of reason, liberty and equality could deliver. "Neither Master nor God!"
Suprisingly I agree with a lot of what you say, Krop. However, whether or not you believe there is a God isn't the real issue... as Marx said "religion is the opium of the people" and I just feel that with so many people in pain it's the wrong time to worry too much about the side-effects so long as it functions as a reasonable pain-killer. A quick glance at this might give you a better idea of where I'm coming from. http://www.abctales.com/story/mykle/where-now
I read that mykle, thanks for the link. I think you and I could get into quite a debate about modernism, primitivism and science, but for now I'll confine myself to saying that the element of your apparent position that I find most disturbing is the idea that the promotion of myths might be a salve to our problems. If that is part of your stance then I'd say that you're in some pretty scary company, company that I would avoid as a matter of course.
I thank you Krop, since as I see it you have advanced my argument! Surely you realise that the assertion that science has proven there is not a God is a myth! Many of the things that are presented as scientific facts are merely theories and hence speculative. Many of the recent theories such as dark matter and dark energy could as easily have been written by a science fiction writer as by a scientist - hence the people who have not been persuaded by this modern mumbo jumbo and prefer to believe in God are at least as likely to be right as you might be in assuming that the world would be a better place were it to be more anarchist. After all if you can believe that particles spontaneously pop in and out of existence often to be sucked up by black holes and that as Terry Pratchett aptly described The Big Bang “First there was nothing which exploded!” why is it so difficult to imagine a God? I would have thought that you would have supported people’s right to believe what they wish and I’m very surprised to find that you seem to be saying that people should only believe in what you believe in.
Taking the first part of your response first mykle: I certainly do not believe that people should only believe what I believe. However, if someone ventures to put their opinions, religious or political, on a message board they must surely expect to have them challenged by people of other persuasions. Now back to the top: scientists do not claim to have proven the non-existence of god or gods, at least not the best scientists. Rather they argue that the existence of gods is highly improbable and certainly not the best way to explain the universe as our best observations show it to be. Scientific theories differ from theistic dogma in one vital regard: scientists seek evidence to support their theories and propose theories which correspond to the evidence. Theists propound faith and can adduce only scripture or some vague inner feeling to support their pronouncements. My anarchism is my own response to my understanding of history, politics, economics and ecology. I readily accept that anarchism is a theory (or more accurately a collection of theories) the supporters of which must argue from historical example and challenging, adaptable critique of the world as it is today. Because I believe my anarchism to be scientific (in its regard for evidence rather than in the determinist Marxist sense) and religion to be a matter of faith, the blinder the better, of course I would argue that I am more likely to be right than people who hold that there is a god. I fail to see how a "oh no there isn't. Oh yes there is" argument will do us any good at all, however I would maintain that if I came across good evidence that anarchist theories are all wrong, that, for example, some form of hierarchical organisation is not only necessary but inevitable, I would change my ideas and my label; I would recognise that I was wrong. Religion is not like that, faith is a different creature and far inferior to reason. No, I find it much easier to believe in the Big Bang than in the existence of god. God is an unnecessary explanation which supposes the pre-existence of a presumably highly complex creature outside of time and space. Why, when we can observe and explain so much, should I make the huge leap to explaining away the universe with reference to god? I may as well never have reached seven years old and still believe that it is a fairy which comes and takes away my tooth and leaves a coin in return; I might as well believe in Santa! In all seriousness mykle, I would ask you to read 'The God Delusion' by Richard Dawkins. I dare say that it won't shift you an inch, but it might just help explain to you the existence of a very significant number of atheists in the world.
To be honest Kropotkin38 I'm not really all that bothered about who is right about what... I merely think that people should be allowed to believe what they choose without being told they're deluded. If you check into the theories of Dark Energy and Dark Matter you will find that there is in fact no evidence to support them and it is more of a matter of trying to make the evidence fit the theory because the generally accepted theory of gravity predicts that 90% or so of the mass of the Universe has gone missing. I believe that modern science is constantly trying to make the evidence fit its theories and this will become much more obvious in the near future as improved measuring techniques highlight the discrepancies between theory and reality. As for God - I'm drawn to Buddhism which doesn't have one - although it seems to have inherited some gods... particularly in the Chinese flavour. I've seen Dawkins several times on TV and he has always failed to impress and come across as a man with a mission and not with an open mind as you try to suggest scientist are. I've heard it said that the Big Bang could well have been the result of a collision in the 13th? dimension and at least that admits that something must have caused it. Personally, I don't know if it was God or not - but at least I know that I don't know!
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"I've heard it said that the Big Bang could well have been the result of a collision in the 13th... dimension" Quote of the week!
"I'm not really all that bothered about who is right about what..." No? Well I am, and there are some very good reasons why. People die because of ignorance; people's lives are blighted by ignorance and persecution for religious reasons. I'd like to say that it doesn't matter to me that you choose to believe that all ideas have equal validity, but in fact it matters to all of us on planet Earth. If you give as much credence to the god of the old testament as you do to Darwinism, to the Armageddon-seeking nutters as to modern Earth science then you're no better than the inquisitors who burned heretics, you're no better than the murderers whose madness you defend. Where exactly do you draw the line? Should we respect the belief that abortion is murder and thus give succour to the scum that bomb clinics? "as improved measuring techniques highlight the discrepancies between theory and reality." That mykle, is called science. The process you describe is the scientific method; it is the best tool we have to try to approach the true nature of life and the universe. To have faith in the primitive inventions of scared, probably delusional, prophets when the scientific alternative is available to you is to be willingly ignorant; actually it is nothing short of misanthropic. "I've seen Dawkins several times on TV and he has always failed to impress and come across as a man with a mission and not with an open mind as you try to suggest scientist are." Well perhaps you should try reading some of his books. He makes no bones about being on a mission; I have the sense that he hates ignorance and loves rational enquiry. He is an atheist and he is on a mission; unlike so many religionists with the same kind of drive however, Dawkins will not issue a fatwah to have you killed, he will not damn you to hell, he will not call a crusade against your homeland and he will not ask you your religion if you want to marry into his family. Taking pride in not knowing, no more than that taking pride in not wanting to know is not clever, it's not wise. If that arch-butcher Jehovah were to exist your oh-so-openmindedness wouldn't save you anyway, and that's the funniest thing of this whole generous spirit to all religions thing. Haven't you noticed that there are very few religions that admit the possibility that other faiths may contain some element of truth; they are all mutually exclusive. In fact it is only science which says "demonstrate your proofs and if they work then they will deserve conditional credence"..... all the others just want to sit back and watch fence-sitters like you, and atheists like me, suffer together in hell, or, if they can't wait for that they just want to burn our arses in the here and now.
Seems like you're a man on a mission too Mr K :O)
hehe..blaming scientists, materialism, erosion of the belief in God? So we're all quite happy to agree that we're all more miserable now than we were in biblical times, before big bang theory and prior to the industrial revolution? science, btw, never deals (or has claimed to deal) with truth...only theories which are either strengthened or discarded through measurement and observation. That's how it evolves...Science aint interested in God. Science is interested in Science, although some people have claimed to have felt close to God when having those Eureka moments, just as the preacher may feel close to God when praying. Some people feel close to God when dancing and is to some a DJ. :P tut So I wonder why we're all unhappier now than we were 'before'? And where is the evidence? :P

~It's a maze for rats to try, it's a race for rats to die.~

The notion of happy or happiness is specious. Once meeting basic survival needs, there is the next thing, then the next, a chase of fulfillment and enrichment through one vehicle or another (God, money/stuff, sex/love, success, recognition, substances) with stops of relief along the way. The will and ego are forward projectiles. Today, the difference is the speed and immediacy of the imagery and examples of what is possible. So, the opportunity for that existential nausea is not only ever present, but almost seems to become a default state of mind. The anecdote can only be not wanting or expecting anything whatsoever. Can we do this in contemporary society without becoming either ascetics or nihilists? I do think more and more it's an appealing idea, and easier than it sounds.
mykle, why did you move a post or copy a post or whatever it is that you've done? The more I think about that manipulation of the thread the angrier it makes me. Of course I could not reply to mykle's 21.19 thread at 21.02 & I'd be very unlikely to post two long posts uninterrupted by someone else's arguments. Was this down to you mykle? I'm not on a mission but neither will I let pass without argument religious pronouncements. There is this bizarre tendency in our society to give religion some special status in the world of ideas, to give respect freely to its witterings. I don't see why I should tip toe around on account of religion. Oh, and I've pulled a couple of muscles in my leg so I'm trapped here in front of the PC!
Well, you're up early Mr K, hope the leg is healed today :o) A very good day to be trapped in front of your computer if the weather men prove right! Yes, I was a bit perturbed by the loss of continuity and realised it was because I edited the "To be honest" piece for spacing and it moved it down in the order of posting. No way I can think of to restore the post to its original position so we will have to grin and bear it... God likes His little jokes :O)
Now then Mr K, have you ever considered the merits of a benevolent dictatorship where the ‘man at the top’ is incorruptible and has the very best interests of his subjects at heart? I’d say that one of the biggest problems modern governments have (besides corruption) is lack of continuity and so someone who would always be ‘boss’ and could get on with perfecting his vision without constant u-turns would make a perfect ruler and his vision for the future would be very accurate :O) All this thinking for yourself is so overated. Far better to lie on the beach in the sunshine, drinking coconut juice, eating mangoes listening to the sounds of the sea and nipping in for a quick swim if it gets a bit too hot. Live the sweet, gentle life of the Eloi while the Morlocks are all locked in their little underground prisons :O)
For anyone wishing to read a fairly non-technical but very informative piece on how God might fit into modern physics you could do a lot worse than have a quick glance at this beautifully written piece by Stephen Hawking... I suspect he knows a little more about it that Dwarkins :O) God an inveterate gambler – explains why I’m so fond of the Lottery :O) http://www.hawking.org.uk/lectures/dice.html
I get woken up every morning between 5.30 and 6.00 by a cat my son rescued from the car park in our local town. I get up before dawn every day thanks to the cat biting my nose or my ear, and I write. It's bizarre, but I've written just over 90,000 words towards a novel since we've had the cat and most of them down to her early alarm calls! The weather here is a little more tranquil than in Blightey - we're just at the tail end of the weather system; the sky is grey, but no storms. I'm not sure where you are going with the benevolent dictatorship argument. A good place to start with a critique of the suggestion though would be to consider the impossibility that such a ruler could have what the cybernetician Stafford Beer called requisite variety; that is the capability to grasp all of the necessary information to make such an autocracy function. Any conceivable benevolent dictator would certainly have to have godlike powers in order to make the regime work; I neither believe in god nor the efficacy of autocracies. In any event, and to return all the way to the top of this thread, a high degree of autonomy and responsibility seems to me to be a vital component in human happiness. I believe in shared decision making in the family, in the workplace and at every conceivable level. Autocracy, and indeed all hierarchy, infantilises human beings; this cannot make for life satisfaction or enduring happiness. Right, I have to limp off now to get something done with my day. Bye.
Good to see your sense of humour has returned, Mr K... have a nice day :O)
Something of an irrelevant aside but I can never quite grasp why atheists turn to Dawkins to back up their argument. He is an excellent biologist and I recommend his books 'The Selfish Gene' and to some extent 'The Blind Watchmaker' a sound though hardly novel critique of Paleys's teleological proof for the existence of god in all its forms. But in his latest book, he makes a giant leap from scientific explanation to atheism with no convincing philosophical argument bridging the two. It is the most hideous non-sequitur I have encountered in recent memory. If you want a better and more thought provoking argument for atheism, I'd recommend Daniel Dennett (although he also tends to go into lengthy scientific asides which really adds little to his case). The older generation of atheists seem to me to be more intellectually able and philosphically sound than these new everyman-science and philosophy-lite fashionistas. Most notably, Anthony Flew presents one of the most lucid case for atheism... jude "Cacoethes scribendi" http://www.judesworld.net

 

The reason I recommended Dawkins is because he is highly readable; I have read quite a few criticisms of 'The God Delusion' but I still find it quite a consistent and thorough argument from the point of departure that god is exceedingly unlikely to exist. Mykle, if Stephen Hawking believes in the existence of god, I will eat my woolly hat. The oldest trick in the book for theists is to take the use of the word "god" by physicists and assume that it means that they are theists. Einstein used the word god quite often, but I do not believe that he was a theist. Certainly Dawkins (again - sorry jude) states categorically that Hawking only ever uses the word god in a metaphorical or poetic fashion. If Hawking's grasp of cosmology exceeds Dawkins' mykle, I suggest that Dawkins' grasp of Hawking exceeds yours. Jude, the case for atheism can hardly be presented in one book or by one man. The case for atheism is a multi-strand and very powerful stream of ever-strengthening evidence. If you don't mind me saying, well no, actually whether you mind or not, whatever the flaws of "philosophy-lite" atheism, it remains a great deal more persuasive than any arguments for the existence of god. God is a supposition based on dark ignorance; you go ahead and prove his existence to me! What's that? It's all a question of faith? I can see that we're back into dark ignorance and its alleged benefits.
It’s interesting how a thread on materialism so quickly turned into one about God – my fault I know. However, it does make me wonder whether materialism in some sense opposes spirituality and it is that, the belief that we are more than mere machines, which science often seems to challenge and undermine, and in so doing attempts to steals the magic from our lives.
Mr K: I see that you, like Dawkins, assume the arrogant position that you know better than the person themselves what they think... the danger of getting too emotionally attached to your views! I think if you re-read the link again you will notice that Steven goes out of his way to point out there is no suggestion that God does not exist.
Won’t post at all... then three come along at once :O)
See above.
I have no desire to prove anything to anybody. I don't mind what other people may or may not believe in this regard. I find it difficult to understand why everyone is so evangelical with their point of view be it for or against theism (or any other spiritual idea)...I find theology-lite just as distasteful as philosophy-lite. jude

 

Hi M, Materialism is a slippery term. I think (and correct me if...) you were talking about materialism in the context of consumerism. My understanding of materialism in the sense that it threatens a spititual concept is materialism as a type of 'nothing-buttery' reductionism. Consumer materialism does perhaps dampen happiness but I still believe we should have our basic needs met and promises of the hereafter shouldn't be used to pacify those in dire-poverty. A trendy church phrase of the last decade was something like 'we believe in life before death' . I think Douglas Couplant described it well with this neo-logism from Gen X "Poor Buoyancy: (page 82) The realization that one was a better person when one had less money. I know that I for one enjoyed the happiest 12 months of my life in 2006 when I was utterly skint and living in a tiny studio flat! jude

 

This thread has made me realise that there seems to be a lot of confusion concerning the difference between God and organised religions and hence I’ve written this, hopefully humorous piece, to try and elaborate... hope it helps. http://www.abctales.com/story/mykle/lost
Now fours :O)
Hey j, Sorry, I'm very distracted at the moment as this blasted HG3 mobile modem is absolutely rubbish!
Half the time it disconnects without warning, the rest of the time it is so slow that it can take 10 minutes to post (or it times out)!
I think I was seeing it from a different perspective j, not that having money was the problem more the funamental attitude to it's importance. Yeah, I know I spelt Stephen wrong Mr K but it will jump to the bottom if I edit.
Okay, I give up... I'll catch you later Jude :O)
The most important point in all this for me mykle is that it is not only possible but also desirable to be both against materialism (in the consumerist sense) and against the idea of god. I do not suffer from the confusion between organised religion and the idea of god; I can see perfectly well that neither one necessarily depends on the other although I am opposed to both. I should say that I believe protestantism provided the first step towards atheism by denying the need for priests or intermediaries (or wizards) and laying the foundations for a personal quest for god. It has been precisely that search and its outcome - not finding something for which there is no evidence - that has in part given rise to modern atheism. For me anti-clericalism makes a great deal of sense, but it is only truly fulfilled when the fruit it bears is atheism. I don't believe I said that Hawking overtly denied the existence of god, but I do not believe either that he would argue that there is a god in any theistic sense. He may use the word god metaphorically but it is specious to argue that that means he supports the god hypothesis.
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