Chapter Nine – Do you still hope to venture into a ‘significant other’ pair? Why / why not? Donna Yes, even for companionship in my old age. Alyss I would love a friend, a partner, someone who cares what happens to me, someone to be a shoulder to cry on and offer a smile of encouragement when things get tough… someone who knows if I am sick, or need help… but as time wears on, I am now not so sure I could merge my independent life with someone...