Well at least she had the guts to tell him to his face, Martin. I actually know someone who found out when he saw his 'fiance' in the wedding pics in the local newspaper. What was even worse was that mutal 'friends' knew all about it and said nothing. The main problem with liars is that no one tells lies all the time so it becomes very difficult to work out what is lies and what isn't. The only safe thing to do is treat everything as a lie and that can have profoundly upsetting repercussions.
Knocking your head against a brick wall can ruin your looks which is why choosing the non face-to-face approach is probably often better. It's also cheaper if otherwise you'd have to get a train or a bus. Time-saving is another consideration when your precious time (especially if your female) has already been much wasted.
Jeff Prince - thanks for the helpful offer. It's always nice to be able to call on another pair of hands
Mississippi, don't be being too hard on your ex-love...there are no bad women, only bad laws made by men for men.
Marchioness, it is a pain having a good nature isn't it. It seems there are too many men who refuse to see the difference between a doormat and a gentlewoman. If you don't already know how to deliver a perfect swift kick i'd be more than happy to teach you. Even if you never use it it's satisfying to know you can.
Your problem Flashy, is you think too much. I was in fact replying to Tanya's assertion that there is no such thing as a bad woman, when everyone knows they are as bad and as numerous as bad men. You will be able to read about this one when the next chapter of 'Just Another Friday Night In Memphis' hits a website near you, as soon as I've finished compiling the evidence and assembled the critical bits in chronological order. It will leave you with a very smacked gob.
Tanya,
Ironically, the one country in the world where you would fit in best is the one you seem to hate the most: America. The blind ideological hatred of men is the prevailing ethos among an enormous segment of American women, perhaps even the majority, and the legal system broadly supports them in this view. You would have great fun comparing the size and weight of the chip on your shoulder with the chips your American counterparts wear on their shoulders. That's what they spend their free time doing, so it will be easy to find like-minded company.
Well, if you're female, then once you've escaped school, messed about a bit, gone to college or whatever, then you've approximately twenty years to find a compatible partner for life (near impossible) and a career that won't bore you to death or madness whilst giving you a degree of financial independence. You might also want to fit a few other things in before you settle down to domesticity. If you're male, on the other hand, you might think you have an entire lifetime to do these things and still get away with doing very little on the domestic front.
My generation of women were force fed the big lie about 'equality' and don't we know it. Some of us knew it back then. There are no superwomen, surprise, surprise. That is why i say women's time is more precious than a boy's during these years.
I could go on but i wouldn't want my basic understanding of socio-economics to be misinterpreted as the confused rantings of a man-hater.
You seem to have completely ignored that it is in fact, a womans world. You lot make ALL the decisions that matter. Most men keep their mouths shut about this but they all know it's true.
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