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Kevin Marman

Care worker, writer, memester, autist, dissenter.

I like people who not only think outside the box, but reshape the box into something else!

I've been writing since I was 10.  It's my sanctuary - though the structure often needs maintenance.  Over the last twenty or so years, I've won some writing prizes for short fiction, poetry and playwriting.  In 2013, I published my first novel, 'In the Day'.  Looking at it now, I can see all sorts of things I would change - but I suppose that shows progress.  I also have a collection of short fiction, 'Sacred Shirts', which was published in 2024.

In 2015, at the grand age of 56, I was finally diagnosed with Autistic Spectrum Condition (Asperger's).  I live alone with my cat, Daisy, and lots of books.

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Gift: A Son's Story (extract) - Mother's Day

Another extract from the final draft (still in progress) of my memoir of my time as my mother's full-time carer at the end of her life. So March wore...
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Gift: A Son's Story (extract) - A day out

I've almost completed the final draft of 'Gift' - my memoir about my time spent as my mother's full-time carer during the final months of her life...
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Tom All Alone (5) (ii)

It was a hard decision. But a month later saw her sailing out of Liverpool on the Royal George with everything she owned in the world crammed into a...
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Tom All Alone (5) (i)

As Tom got older, they would sometimes find different things to do in the evenings. Mum might sit him on her lap in the back room, and they'd try to...
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Gift: A Son's Story (extract) - Reflection

I'm continuing with the final draft of 'Gift' - my memoir/journal based on my time as my mother's full-time carer for the last few months of her life...
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124 of my comments have received 134 Great Feedback votes

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Can't help wondering how much

Posted on Tue, 10 Sep 2024

Can't help wondering how much 'War is good for business' comes into decision-making, too.  Greased palms, donors with influence.  Snouts in the trough.  And fear of the media/establishment wielding the old 'anti-semitism' brickbats again.

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Thank you!  I keep thinking

Posted on Tue, 10 Sep 2024

Thank you!  I keep thinking these are a bit rambling, and keep abandoning them.  This is very encouraging.

I set out with the idea of writing about all of my 20 years in care - but this first job, which I had on and off over a 5-year...

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Posted in Taking Care 4 (vi) - Day Centre

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Quite.

Posted on Tue, 10 Sep 2024

Quite.

'Do try and keep a straight face.'

...and hide the other one.

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Naturally, I've had to

Posted on Sat, 07 Sep 2024

Naturally, I've had to amalgamate some episodes, and do a little invention.  It's inevitable with anything autobiographical.  It was 20 years ago, after all. We don't always remember things accurately, too. But many of the memories are very clear...

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Posted in Taking Care 4 (ii) - Day Centre

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Brilliant!

Posted on Sun, 08 Sep 2024

Brilliant!

I was a 'dunce' at school - in spite of being bright.  Had to wait until 56 to get the solution.

I've never had a problem with metaphors, figures of speech and figurative language.  I love slang and things like that.  But...

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Reminds me though, Terrence,

Posted on Sun, 08 Sep 2024

Reminds me though, Terrence, of a story told to me by a teacher who'd worked with autistic children at a special school in Bulgaria.  Every morning, some of the kids would come in and set off the fire alarms - and the teachers couldn't understand...

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Posted in A hundred moments in autism - A trip to the cinema

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Exactly what I said to the

Posted on Wed, 04 Sep 2024

Exactly what I said to the woman at KCC when she asked 'Is it likely to cause danger?'  They've said it's okay for now - not damaging the road or anything.  But the slime is making it slippery.  And, as you say, when it's icy.  The main problem...

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I've gotten quite a way into

Posted on Tue, 03 Sep 2024

I've gotten quite a way into it.  But I've sidelined it for now.  It was meant to be a memoir about my 20 years in social care, and the various organisations - private, charity and public - I've worked for.  Mainly, too, I envisaged it as a...

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Posted in Taking Care 2

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The alarm bells are justified

Posted on Tue, 03 Sep 2024

The alarm bells are justified.  One of the worst abusers I've had the misfortune to work with.  A horrible bully - he and his wife together.  A colleague and I ended up blowing the whistle on them.  But they got off for lack of firm evidence (as...

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Posted in Taking Care 2

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So sorry to read that you are

Posted on Tue, 03 Sep 2024

So sorry to read that you are going through this, Jenny.  I've had one of those scans and those machines are horrible - the noise, the being closed in... all of it.

I know someone who recently had a hip replacement, after years of...

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Posted in Can Life Get Better?

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