Dumped by woman

wonder if women are worth it after all. after all that
sharings
and emotional, physical and financial investments, what you get is
a
good-bye because someone else has caught her eye. you are not
good
enough for her. it's like a slap in the face. how do you respond?

you could go and fight it out with the other person...do the
equivalent of the gay bobbit, if at all you could :) remember
what
fight club taught us... sometimes all we need is just to fight it
out to let out all those agression, frustration etc.

you could feel it's a hopeless fight, and the powerlessness
drives
you to a deep depression...(which is the most common responsse of
women generally)

you could get yourself distracted with drinks, drugs,
prosmicuity,
gambling, work -- any form of addiction.

you could immerse yourself in religion, and then discover
something
worse, that it condemns your actions, and by that, your very
being...

you could fantasize your own world, get immersed in poetry,
writings, etc.

you could change your outlook in life...get away from it all...go
for a long holiday

you could immerse yourself in charity work, working for the poor,
disadvanged and realize that there are others with greater
misfortune than yourself

whatever it is, they are all legitimate responses. they are
temporary in nature, and act as crutches so that we could get
back
our equilibrium (if we ever had it in the first place). we will
survive somehow ...