Keyed Up, All

ALL KEYED UP
A GUIDE TO CYBER SEX
BY
Keith Trezise

The internet is a wonderful thing. It has opened up a whole new world
of discovery for us all. At the click of a button we can journey to far
off lands, find out all we need to know about the lesser-spotted nadger
bird, download free music, or 'meet' and 'chat' with people from all
over the world.

It is the latter item that holds our interest the most. Internet
chatrooms mean that we now have the ability to communicate with total
strangers a continent away and to 'talk' with them as if we have known
them for years. And sure enough, the subject matter invariably turns to
sex.

Lets not put too fine a point on it. Cyber sex is just a tool for
self-gratification. It's a way of sharing your masturbation experiences
with other like-minded people. But more than that, it is a way of
playing out your wildest sexual fantasies without leaving your room.
Maybe you have always wanted to have sex outdoors, but your partner is
not adventurous enough. Cyber sex allows you to go through the motions
without actually freezing to death or being discovered by innocent
passers-by.

There are chatrooms to suit every kind of fantasy that you care to
imagine (and some that really shouldn't be there at all. Maybe that is
being judgmental, but I really think that advocating sex with minors is
out of order) You can be anyone you like on the internet, because there
is such a vast opportunity for remaining anonymous. Girls can take the
role of damsels in distress, chained up in a cruel master's dungeon,
being a slave to his wicked sexual desires. Boys can pretend to be
girls and find out what lesbian sex is all about (maybe they might
finally learn how to please a girl if they went to the trouble of doing
that!).

Cyber sex must always be kept in perspective though. A lot of people
wonder about it. A lot of people can't see the point. But a great
number of people are enjoying sharing sexual desires with people who
appreciate those desires and get as much out of it as the other person.
It shouldn't be substituted for real sex - there is no competition
really! But used properly, cyber sex can enhance the real thing.

Talking about sex and fantasies and indeed reading about sex or
watching an erotic video are all big turn-ons. Our sex drive needs as
much mental stimulation as it does physical. Maybe it needs the mental
stimulation more. Reading erotic stories is very good for arousal, but
sometimes you think, 'I wish he'd done this to her' or ' I wish she
hadn't done that'. With Cyber sex, the erotic story is being written as
you chat. You are able to interact with it. If you want him to push his
fingers inside you, you can tell him to. They may well be your fingers
doing the actual work, but if you lose yourself in your imagination,
all the better.

So&;#8230; now you know a little about cyber sex, how do you go
about getting it? You will need a connection to the internet and access
to chatrooms. Most chatrooms have titles and a lot of them leave
nothing to the imagination. Some are quite simply labelled 'cyber' and
this is a good indication. Others have titles like 'teacher's study' -
not educational rooms I assure you, these are there for those who
fantasise about spankings and being caned. Some ISPs (Internet Service
Providers) ban the use of certain swear words, so you could come across
rooms that are called, 'Ladies who like to f**k' - I think you can work
that one out. And rooms dedicated to gay sex or bisexuals are also easy
to come across and enable you to indulge your curiosity without
fear.

You've found the room and there are people in it. What happens next?
Quite often - nothing! It is amazing how many chatrooms are full of
people but nobody seems to be saying anything. This is all down to
instant messages, or private messages or whispers, depending on which
chatrooms you are using. Generally speaking, if you are in a room full
of people with no chat going on, individuals have paired off and are
talking to each other privately. You may well get approached to 'go
private' when you enter a chatroom. When you go private with someone,
the text you input is often displayed in the main chat window, but is
only visible to you and the person you have gone private with - which
is often a good job!

Chatrooms have developed a language of their own and some common things
you see typed in are: -
A/s/l they are asking you your age/sex/location
Lol laugh out loud (when you've said something funny)

ROFL Roll on floor laughing (extremely funny)
You will soon pick up the basics as you go along.
It's one thing being in the right place and being with the right kind
of people, but what do you say to start the ball rolling? There are of
course several approaches to this just as there are in real life, but
with the internet, because you aren't meeting face to face, it enables
you to be a bit more daring. Usually guys have no trouble working the
conversation round to sex, so &;#8230; once you're on the subject
the rest should be easy - just tell it how it is and what you would
like to do to the other person or what you would like the other person
to do to you. There follows a fictitious example of how a cyber sex
session could go.

Easyguy: Hi &;#8230; how are you?
Hornygirl: Fine thnx &;#8230; u?
Easyguy: I'm fine too &;#8230; you looking for some fun?
Hornygirl: Sure&;#8230; isn't everybody&;#8230;. Lol?
Easyguy: I guess so &;#8230; but what kind of fun are you looking
for?
Hornygirl: I would have thought my ID name would have made that
obvious!!
Easyguy: I did wonder about that &;#8230; lol &;#8230; so are
you?
Hornygirl: Am I what?
Easyguy: HORNY!! (note: Capitals denotes you are shouting)
Hornygirl: Yes I am!! And very wet!!
Easyguy: mmmmmm sounds good!! Like me to help you out?
Hornygirl: out of what?
Easyguy: your bra and panties for a start &;#8230; lol
Hornygirl: you'd have a job!!
Easyguy: why?
Hornygirl: cos I don't have any on!!!
Easyguy: what u wearing then?
Hornygirl: I'm not - I'm totally naked!!!
Easyguy: What are you doin on the pc with no clothes on?
Hornygirl: playing with myself!! What are u doing?
Easyguy: I got something in my hand!!!
Hornygirl: any prizes for guessing what?
Easyguy: lol &;#8230; no!!
Hornygirl: wouldn't you prefer it to be in my mouth?
Easyguy: mmmm yes!!!
Hornygirl: I'm running my tongue along your shaft &;#8230; licking
slowly.. and then I take you deep in my mouth
Easyguy: oh God!! That feels good &;#8230;
Hornygirl: I love to suck!!
Easyguy: That's cool!! I love to use my tongue &;#8230;. Probe you
&;#8230; tease your clit with it whilst pushing my fingers deep
inside you.
Hornygirl: mmmmm wonderful!! I have 2 fingers in me already!!!
Easyguy: sounds fun

And of course it probably was!!

What you must realise, however, is that the above conversation is only
the tip of the iceberg. It's up to you to steer the conversation
whichever way you want it to go. The only limitation is your
imagination.

Quite often your cyber sex partner will be a random stranger, but it is
possible to build a rapport with one particular person and that could
lead to you becoming cyber lovers, hungry for each other's input - if
you'll pardon the expression. It is not unheard of either, for what
goes on in the virtual world of cyber space to spill out into reality.
Maybe that fantasy lover who turns you on online will be even more of a
turn on offline.

If you do meet up with your cyber lover, it would be wise to meet
somewhere 'safe' rather than jumping straight into his/her bed.
Remember that the internet gives a lot of scope for anonymity and
people may be quite different in the flesh to the picture they have
given you online during the course of steamy cyber sex sessions. That
guy with the Brad Pitt smile may not have all his own teeth - and the
girl with Pamela Anderson breasts might just have been exaggerating a
little.

As I said, cyber sex is an interactive erotic story which serves to
stimulate the mind for masturbation purposes &;#8230; or indeed just
to satisfy one's curiosity. The only rule I suggest you follow is to be
yourself and get rid of your inhibitions. Cyber sex is a way of sharing
your deepest sexual desires with someone without shocking them - in
fact it will probably be turning them on. They are there for sex. They
are more than likely masturbating too. So go for it! If you don't like
it, you don't have to do it again.