The He Said She Said CRAP!!!

In a Study of my own life I have had so many Events that involve the He said She said Crap? One Event in Particular, I will start from the begining so that you better understand the situation! I am currently in a relationship with a wonderful man. He and I have had our ups and downs as all relationships do? But this situation is a tad bit diffrent. My Boyfriend had once told me that he was so sick of the "He said She said Crap, and that everyone should just grow up". Well, I then replied " Me too, I am tired of all the Crap", Then of coarse i asked, "How do you stop it" and for the first time since i have known him he couldnt answer it. Now I will tell you how this conversation came to be. It all started about 4 months ago, when we started to hang out with one of his good friends and his friends girlfriend. With everything, it always starts off good, until someone breaks that goodness.

The He said She said Crap started, and I was the first victim of the crime. Aparently I was being lied to by my boyfriends, friends girlfriend ( did you get that) well she was a little bit jealous that my boyfriend and I were doing pretty good in our relationship and she wasn't in her's so she decided to Activate the "He said She said Crap". She started to tell my boyfriend Lies about me and all kinds of things about me and then turn around and told me things about my boyfriend, so that we would fight? Well, I am not going to lie, we Fought ALOT! We didn't know what to believe because we thought they were our friends and that they wouldn't lie. Interesting though because I found out what she was tring to do and brought it up to my boyfriend and that is what brought us to the situation at hand.

I would love to go in depth with this story but i am sure if you have made it this far in reading that you understand what i am talking about. The He said She said Crap has definetly put a RIP in my relationship! So if you have any stories you would love to share with me and any comments you would like to share then please talk to me. I guess my question is? HOW DO YOU STOP IT? Personally i don't think you can, i think we are going to have to trust the one we are with instead.